Moving Toward Oneness

Dear Marriage Investors,

Have you ever paused to ask: Are we truly moving toward oneness, or just drifting apart without realizing it?

In our latest Marriage Investors video, we explored what it really looks like to pursue oneness in marriage. Jesus’ words in Mark 10:7-8 remind us:

“For this reason a man shall leave his father and mother, and the two shall become one flesh; so they are no longer two, but one flesh.”

Oneness Isn’t Automatic

Many couples believe that being married means being unified. But oneness is not automatic — it’s intentional.

Life’s busyness, routines, and unspoken frustrations can create slow drift. Without realizing it, you wake up one day feeling more like roommates than partners.

How Drift Happens

In the video, we shared how drift happens when:

• Decisions are made independently rather than as a team

• Parenting roles become divided instead of unified

• Finances are handled separately without transparency

• Faith journeys run in parallel but not together

These small divides create a big distance over time.

Moving Toward Unity

Building oneness requires choosing to move toward each other daily. It’s:

• Checking in before making decisions that affect both of you

• Parenting with a united front

• Managing finances with openness and prayerful stewardship

• Growing spiritually together through prayer, study, and worship

When you shift from “me” to “we,” your marriage reflects God’s design for unity and partnership.

Habits That Divide Your Heart

We also discussed habits that quietly divide your heart, such as:

• Focusing on personal goals without including your spouse

• Spending more emotional energy on work or hobbies than your relationship

• Allowing distractions like social media or stress to steal your attention

The Power of Team Mentality

Marriage is a team sport. A daily commitment to connection builds intimacy, trust, and lasting love. When you see each other as teammates rather than opponents, you foster an environment of grace and support.

📘 For deeper guidance on pursuing oneness, our book Forever Together: Unveiling the Keys to Lasting Marriage Connection is available now on Amazon and Barnes & Noble. It offers biblical insights, practical tools, and honest stories to help you grow closer, day by day.

Oneness doesn’t just happen. It’s built with intentional choices, daily connection, and God at the center.

Keep moving forward together.

With you on the journey,
Marcellus & Valerie
Marriage Investors
www.marriageinvestors.net

P.S. If this resonates, share it with another couple who longs to build unity in their marriage.