The Little Things That Makes a Big Difference

Jul 11, 2025

 

Dear Marriage Investors,

This week, let’s pause and consider a simple but powerful truth: it’s the little things that often make the biggest difference in marriage.

We often think grand gestures or big changes are what strengthen a relationship. While those moments have their place, true connection is built day by day in small, intentional ways.

The Power of Small Acts

Think about it:

  • A gentle touch as you pass each other in the kitchen
  • A text in the middle of the day that simply says, “Thinking of you”
  • Saying “thank you” for daily tasks that often go unnoticed
  • Sitting together in silence, just enjoying each other’s presence

These aren’t dramatic, but they communicate care, value, and commitment. They remind your spouse, “You matter to me, and I see you.”

Why Little Things Matter

Song of Solomon 2:15 says, “Catch the foxes for us, the little foxes that are ruining the vineyards, while our vineyards are in blossom.” In context, it’s about protecting love from small distractions and neglect. Little acts of kindness guard your marriage just as little moments of neglect can quietly harm it.

When you choose daily connection, appreciation, and kindness, you build a culture of love and trust in your home. Over time, these small deposits add up to a marriage rich in grace, intimacy, and resilience.

Final Reflection

This week, don’t underestimate the power of small things. A marriage built on daily kindness is one that weathers storms and celebrates joys with a deep, unshakable bond.

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Let’s keep investing in what matters most.

With you on the journey,
Marcellus & Valerie
Marriage Investors
www.marriageinvestors.net

P.S. What’s one small act you can do today to show love to your spouse?