A Women's Bible Study with Video Teaching
Abiding in
Marriage
The Heart of Her Husband
A 5-session video study designed for wives who want to show up — on purpose — for their husbands and their marriages. Written from 40+ years of testimony, not theory.
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What does it mean to truly abide?
God gave Valerie a simple, five-letter framework drawn from John 15 — a roadmap for wives who want to bear fruit in their marriages, not just survive them.
"I am the vine, you are the branches. Those who abide in me and I in them bear much fruit." — John 15:5
Your God-designed role as a wife — not reluctantly, but with faith and joy.
In the God-given gifts, calling, and strengths placed in your husband.
Be the main voice of goodness and influence in your husband's life.
To act on what you know. Be a doer of the Word — not just a hearer.
God's ways and purposes in your heart — in every conversation, every day.
Everything you need to go deep.
This isn't a program. It's a roadmap of scripture you can return to whenever your marriage needs it.
Valerie walks you through each letter of ABIDE — 15 to 20 minutes of warm, scripture-grounded teaching per session.
All scriptures laid in. Reflection questions for every letter. Notes pages you can return to in any season.
Practical action steps for each session — designed to move the Word from your head to your home.
Valerie Bonner
"I'm not coming as an expert lecturing from above. I'm coming alongside. We are women. We are daughters. Let's come in together."
Valerie Bonner is a marriage coach, ministry leader, and co-founder of Marriage Investors LLC — a faith-centered ministry dedicated to helping Christian couples stay connected in every season of marriage.
She writes not from theory, but from testimony. Valerie holds a B.A. in Business Administration and has walked alongside couples for more than a decade. The ABIDE study is drawn from the scriptures that have carried her through over 40 years of real, faithful, grace-filled marriage.
5 video sessions. One transformed marriage.
Valerie introduces herself, shares the heart behind the study, and walks you through the full ABIDE framework so you know exactly what to expect in each session.
The first letter of ABIDE. Valerie opens Proverbs 31:11 — the heart of her husband trusts in her — and walks wives through what it means to accept their God-designed role with faith-filled joy, not reluctance.
The second letter of ABIDE. Valerie invites you to shift one word that can change everything — from "hard" to "mystery" — and teaches how to recognize, honor, and affirm the gifts God placed in your husband.
The third letter of ABIDE. Valerie opens 1 Peter 3:1 and invites you to be an instrument of goodness in your home — won without a word, through the lasting beauty of a gentle and quiet spirit.
The fourth letter of ABIDE. Valerie turns to James 1:22 with a direct challenge: we know the Word — but do we determine to act on it? Knowledge without action is incomplete.
The final letter of ABIDE. Valerie brings everything home with Colossians 3 as a love letter and Titus 3 as your foundation of grace. Just make a purpose. Say I can. We can do this, God. We can.
Before Valerie ever recorded a single session for this course, she stood in a room full of women at Lowcountry Community Church in Bluffton, SC — and taught the whole thing live. That original 50-minute teaching is yours free. Sign up below to receive it.
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Before this became a book and a video series, Valerie taught ABIDE live at a women's conference at Lowcountry Community Church in Bluffton, SC. The full 50-minute teaching is yours — free.
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Originally presented at Lowcountry Community Church · Bluffton, SC
Used with permission — Lowcountry Community Church
This study is for you.
Start abiding today.
A roadmap of scripture you can return to next week, three months from now, or a year from now — wherever your marriage needs it.
- 5 video teaching sessions by Valerie Bonner
- Companion study guide (PDF + print)
- Reflection questions for every letter
- All scriptures laid in — no Bible needed
- Lifetime access — return in any season
- Bonus: Original LCC conference teaching (50 min)
"Go ABIDE — in your marriage, in your home, in your calling. And watch what God does."
— Valerie Bonner
